Why does this girl playfully hit me

You should upgrade or use an alternative browser. Thread starter Chase Start date Jan 14, Chase Chieftan Staff member. Joined Oct 9, Messages 4, A commenter on the How to Start a Relationship with a New Girlfriend post asked about a girl punching him in the arm playfully a couple of times. Whenever you see: Girls hitting you playfully Girls punching you playfully Girls kicking you playfully Girls swatting you playfully Even if it's a girl you consider as having friend-zoned you, it's still a sign that she's at least open to the idea of sexy with you, and very comfortable with you.

Because breaking the touch barrier is something women will only do with men they like a lot and feel very comfortable around and, usually, very attracted to. When you see this, take it as a sign to start moving things ahead aggressively.

Don't jump on it immediately - she'll view that as in reaction to her hitting you, and you'll look weak it'll look like you were too timid to do this on your own and were waiting from some sort of sign from her. Instead, make a mental note on it, and 5 minutes later start escalating things and moving them forward more quickly. Joined Dec 23, Messages In all seriousness, the last girl who 'play punched' me was a lesbian. I must be better at this than I thought.

In normal circumstances though, I definitely agree this is a good sign. Just out of curiosity Chase and sorry to get sidetracked here , do you think it is possible to seduce self-proclaimed lesbians? Definitely one for the bucketlist that one Click to expand Chase said:. How about just 'teasing' in general I've had a few girls who'll do that but not in a bantering kind of way, but almost as if they're really nervous of doing it. Flames- Flames said:.

Anyway so is this just a touch barrier thing I wonder? Thanks Chase. I've got quite a strong belief that pretty much any emotion is better than no emotion, and although most girls are quite good at hiding true intentions with time I'm getting better at noticing the little slip ups they make.

I'm sure you get that sometimes when your scratching your head, then they'll do something and you think "hah! Got you! Sexual tension is one of the best thins you can use IMO.

Joined Dec 7, Messages Great Post Chase, I have had a couple memorable experiences with girls touching me. A girl a few years ago punched me in the arm while we were studying together. She was probably very into me, because she made quite a bit of physical contact, and I never really reciprocated.

Only later did I realize I was into her, and by that time I was in the friend zone. Not long ago, a girl I thought had friend zoned me This in and of itself is not necessarily an invitation for a one night stand.

So keep in mind that you need to see a couple of these signs to really get an indication if she is flirting with you. When people are flirting, they want to portray the most confident version of themselves.

And this can be shown if a girl is validating herself to you, trying to subtly, or not so subtly, let you know all of the benefits in knowing and interacting with her. The fifth way to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she is extra playful. Is she being sarcastic, making silly little jokes? Is she playfully hitting you, trying to dance with you, wrestle, tickle?

All of those things are flirty in nature, so watch out for them. The sixth and final way to tell if a girl is flirting with you is if she is laughing at your jokes, whether they are funny or not.

They say laughter is the best medicine because it can cure even the most awkward of situations. Meeting new people and trying to flirt with them can be awkward, but laughter usually helps, as it brings people together, and that is the goal. Alright, those are just six ways to tell if a girl is flirting with you. So keep your eyes and ears peeled and happy flirting!

A recognized leader in helping men become irresistible to women, Kate works with clients from around the world, helping them to get the girl they want, and the relationship they deserve. Show All. Do guys get mad when you playfully hit them? Guys, Is playfully hitting flirting? What does it really mean when a guy grabs a girl's ass and boobs? What was going through the head of this married guy? Sort Girls First Guys First. I have a friend that did that to me recently. I was standing there talking to another guy and she was just slapping my arm.

Not hard. I looked at her and said "what are you doing? She just kind of ducked under my arm and gave me a hug. Think she's flirting with me? Playful hitting is definite interest in my mind but it depends on his experience and how well you know each other. I usually say something like "Hey!